NOTE: 35

When he turns and extends an invitation, only then ought one to approach him. But if he is asleep, or is [engaged in] private writing, or is occupied with some other necessary matter, it is better to show a willingness to wait, rather than to approach him immediately and disturb [him]. Yet, if he is a relative and a familiar, and there is unreserved intercourse between one another's houses, it is no shame to approach such a one boldly. 2. After greeting [him] with humility, it is fitting to stand for a short while; if other persons of equal dignity are seated in that place, one must greet them as well. And when they invite [him] and point out a place to sit, one must not cause the invitation to be repeated, but rather sit with humility, and then make known the reason for his coming. If it is to share in joy, one must sit with a smiling countenance, and with cheerful words pronounce blessings and congratulations. But if it is for condolence, [one must] sit with solemnity, express the grief of his heart, and with words of comfort lighten the other's sorrow.